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The Most Beautiful Bookshop in the World

Posted on October 14, 2018 by Patti Fralix

Mike and I have been in Maastricht, the Netherlands, for the past week at the 34^th annual International Apparel Federation’s World Fashion Convention. We have been to Maastricht once before, ten years ago, for the same meeting. I loved Maastricht then and was excited to come back this year. As much as I loved Maastricht before, it was even more wonderful this time. So much so, that Maastricht has replaced London as my favorite city in the world! Continue reading →

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Don’t Waste My Time!

Posted on October 3, 2018 by Patti Fralix

My wise friend Judy and me on a (too rare) excursion.

My bestie for the last fifty years, Judy, has had a saying for many years that I love: “Waste my money, waste my food, but don’t waste my time.” We all know that time is money, and none of us have enough of it. We cannot afford to waste it.

I am up early this AM because I could not sleep, and I have again, experienced the “waste my time.” I decided to make a couple of phone calls to check on a few things when I had time this AM that I did not plan to have. One of those was to my bank, and one was to a merchant. I should have done laundry instead, for I wasted my time. Continue reading →

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To Tell or Not to Tell?

Posted on September 26, 2018 by Patti Fralix

Sometimes patience is required when dealing with customers!

I am and have always been, passionate about customer service. Even before I started speaking and consulting about the subject, I have been militant about it. Business is too difficult for us to accept poor service. I believe we owe it to companies we care about to give them accurate feedback on all aspects of the service we experience with them. Granted, this is easier when we can give positive feedback. It is much more difficult when we think we should give the feedback, and it is negative. So, is there a way to give negative feedback that is more likely to be heard, and acted upon? I am not sure, but I have found some principles to work for me. Continue reading →

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What Really Matters

Posted on September 21, 2018 by Patti Fralix

Many people in NC and SC have suffered through the effects of Hurricane Florence in the last week. While I am writing this, there are some who are still being evacuated even now due to rivers cresting. For some, it will be a long time, if ever, before their lives will return to normal. At times like this, it behooves us to remember what is really important in our lives, what really matters. As I think about this, I am convinced that there are three things that are most important, and these “things” are not tangible items that can be lost in a hurricane. Other things could be mentioned, but these three are most important. Two of these are related to the connection between oneself and others, and the third is more individual in nature and relates to connection with oneself. Continue reading →

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Waiting on Hurricane Florence

Posted on September 13, 2018 by Patti Fralix

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As I write this, many people up and down the U.S. East Coast are preparing for and waiting for the largest hurricane that has occurred in many years, Hurricane Florence. Florence is about twenty-four hours away from making landfall, and it is assumed that landfall will occur at Wilmington, NC. Many other areas will be also be affected. Mandatory evacuations are already in place in several NC and SC areas. Our primary home area, Raleigh, NC, is expected to have much rain and wind, and likely significant damage and power outages as a result of those. Our beach property is too close to the hurricane’s expected landfall for us to avoid significant damage there. So, we like many others are on edge, not knowing what the outcome of this weather disruption will be. Continue reading →

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St. Maarten/St. Martin Post Hurricane Irma

Posted on September 7, 2018 by Patti Fralix

A rebuilt restaurant on Orient Beach

Mike and I are in St. Maarten/St. Martin this week, one year after Hurricane Irma devastated the island. We were here when Hurricane Irma came through and wanted to come back and see the island while it is recovering. I also wanted to finish the last section of the book on the hurricane experience and lessons learned and seeing the island at this stage is a part of that. Continue reading →

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What Difference Does a Year Make?

Posted on August 30, 2018 by Patti Fralix

Our daughters and granddaughters and our Welcome Home sign that is still up, almost one year later.

Mike and I travel to St. Maarten on Saturday, to see how our precious island has recovered from Hurricane Irma. We will be there for the first anniversary of the hurricane, September 6. We lived through that hurricane and want to go back and see how the island is recovering. We are not able to stay at our place since it will not be reopened until at least October. We will be staying in a part of the island that was not as damaged as was ours. Continue reading →

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Change Changes Us

Posted on August 25, 2018 by Patti Fralix

One of many photos of Hurricane Irma’s wrath in St. Maarten

Yesterday marked the one-year anniversary of Hurricane Harvey’s assault on Houston and other areas in Texas. September 6 is the one-year anniversary of Hurricane Irma’s attack on St. Maarten. Many areas in Texas have recovered well from Harvey, while others haven’t. And while these two anniversaries are remembered, Hawaii is bracing for the arrival of Hurricane Lane. Continue reading →

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The Most Important Change to Make

Posted on August 17, 2018 by Patti Fralix

Jim Rohn, considered by many as America’s greatest business philosopher, said many things worth remembering. His quote, “Work hard at your job and you can make a living. Work hard on yourself and you can make a fortune,” is on my mind lately. I am writing a book on Change, and the change that I am writing about is changing me. The stimulus for this latest change effort of mine was several major experiences in 2017, the latest of which was living through Hurricane Irma when it hit St. Maarten on September 6, 2017. A quote that came to me during that major life experience was, “When I thought I was going to die, I decided to really live.” What “really live” means for me is still evolving. I have, however, made several changes that make my life more satisfying. More about those later. This post isn’t really about me, or my latest book. It is about the insight that can hopefully be of benefit to you. Continue reading →

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Management that Matters

Posted on August 10, 2018 by Patti Fralix

She works in a bar and grill at Oak Island during the summer while she is out on college break. Mike and I had recently met her there. I learned that she previously worked at a local restaurant. Mike and I had been to that restaurant for dinner the night before this conversation. It is one of my favorite restaurants on the island. So, it was interesting to get her perspective on her previous employer. Her statements said it all.

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